( It's a little TMI )
What really bugs me about this situation is today he emails me and is all, like, "I had a good time. Hope you're feeling alright." and then he's blown away when I tell him I'm sore (as expected) and upset. He asks why I'm upset. And I want to stick a knife in his jugular. He has the benefit of not having to deal with the pain, of ignoring the squealing, ignoring the way I was bleeding, ignoring that I wouldn't let him touch me afterwards and got dressed slowly, because of the pain, and went home. None of that, none of it, gave him the clue that I would be upset. Because he was getting off.
Asshole.
What really bugs me about this situation is today he emails me and is all, like, "I had a good time. Hope you're feeling alright." and then he's blown away when I tell him I'm sore (as expected) and upset. He asks why I'm upset. And I want to stick a knife in his jugular. He has the benefit of not having to deal with the pain, of ignoring the squealing, ignoring the way I was bleeding, ignoring that I wouldn't let him touch me afterwards and got dressed slowly, because of the pain, and went home. None of that, none of it, gave him the clue that I would be upset. Because he was getting off.
Asshole.
My name is Andrea and I'm a ... Wait, wrong group. Okay, seriously, this is a legend to my slightly out there and mostly amusing to me tags. Just in case someone actually wants to use them to find stuff.
"apples! apples! apples!" - All adult-discussion of the fun, sexxin' kind will be found under this tag. Because apples is
"it's a terrible life" - For when life sucks so much even Jimmy Stewart can go f' himself yet Supernatural still makes things
"slashing the cats" - Academic work. Yes, there's a story.
My roommate/BFF and I are both grad students. We were having a serious discussion about slash and gender politics in fandom when her cat and my (male) cat decided to play. And by play I mean try to kill each other. And by try to kill each other I mean roll around on the floor going for each other's (neutered!) genitals. Slashing the cats. That's all I'm sayin'.
"snozzleberry tastes like snozzleberry" - Political stuff can be found here. Mostly, it shall be rants and, knowing me, in the vein of "obvious post is obvious." Such as why father's rights don't, say, extend to pregnancy/abortion. Oh, wait. That's not so obvious to some people.
"summer glau can probably kill you" - This is my generalized fandom tag because not only is Summer Glau in everything but she can kill you with her
I'll edit this post (and see if I can sticky-post it) as more tags emerge from the recesses of my traumatized mind. (Totally serious there. All your professors are alcoholics. Academia drove them to drink.)
Signing off!
- while your ghost:
accomplished